People often say that you haven't really been to a place unless you've immersed yourself in its vernacular culture. I agree. Besides, what's the point of discovering a destination for the first time if you haven't tried its domestic offerings. Right?

That's why whenever I'm introduced to new locations, I make it a habit to completely indulge in its various activities, most especially in unique experiences that I don't usually find elsewhere. In other words, it has always been my desire to also enjoy what it feels like to be a local in that specific community.

This was surely evident during my most recent visit to the largest metropolis of the Philippines in terms of geography: Davao City.

During my stay, this remarkable city happened to be celebrating its grandest and most popular annual event. Called the Kadayawan Festival, my arrival couldn't be more perfect! So yeah, I was truly restless and couldn't wait to engage with all the fun and excitement that was buzzing everywhere during this festive occasion.

On one of those days, dusk was already fast-approaching and while strolling alone on the energetic streets of the city’s historic center, I suddenly bumped into a crowd of fellow tourists.

Senior citizens, adults, teenagers, kids, and families of all sizes were queuing up to access the Rizal Park which was currently sheltered by enormous tent roofs and surrounded by decorated barricades filled with dazzling striplights and spectacular ornaments. You can clearly notice the curved silhouette of the tent roofs as they rested beautifully against the backdrop of the darkening blue sky.

Situated right across the city’s administrative center, this public landmark was normally accessible to visitors every day of the week. However, today was different.

“Hmm, this must be an interesting affair since most folks seem to be gathering around here.” I realized.

Security was obviously strict as lines of people were taking turns in entering the premises. The process was speedy though and in an orderly manner.

Like everyone else, I passed through their safety protocols and just a few steps further, an imposing archway with the colorful words “Tabuan sa Kadayawan” welcomed me and other guests from all walks of life.

Nearing the interior of the public park, I could also hear the noisy conversations of people and could smell the appetizing flavors of various food products sold at the stalls. The festive atmosphere was definitely alive and kicking!

Next, as I transferred to the main event hall, this was what I witnessed:

On one end stood the statue of the country’s national hero, Dr. Jose Rizal, hence the name of that designated site.

On the opposite end was the main stage adorned with vibrant festival decorations, heart-stopping sound systems, and psychedelic lighting formations. Although there were no performances yet, everyone seemed to be waiting for it while stuffing themselves with delicious food and refreshing drinks.

And did you notice something really cool about that elevated platform? A few meters above it is a striking sculpture of the great Philippine Eagle’s head, recognized as the national bird of the Filipinos. Amazing, isn't it?

Moreover, I didn't miss the chance to taste the different varieties of culinary experiences available, making it one of my best highlights of the evening.

The entire venue was similar to a royal banquet hall. Or shall we say a classy type of food court? Despite not being too formal, it was still a presentable setting worthy of admiration though.

Now, here's the most challenging moment that awakened the sleeping introvert in me.

Since I was traveling alone in that unfamiliar environment, I felt this weird sensation of being out of place, totally lost in a foreign land, plus becoming even more conscious of my physical presence amidst others who I haven't met in my life. I was almost tempted to exit the venue immediately because I didn't have the courage to ignore my shyness and rather meet new faces.

“Oh well, what the heck! Aren't we supposed to behave like locals here? What am I going to lose if I talk, mingle, and socialize with strangers? Is it inappropriate and unethical to sit and eat together with random people plus get to meet and know them? What's the worst outcome that could happen if I get humiliated during these situations?”

Regardless of my hesitation, I finally decided to break the ice anyway. And boy was I grateful for doing it. Not only did I conquer timidity and the fear of rejection, but I eventually developed potential relationships and authentic friendships during that memorable night. The rest is history.

If you were in my shoes, would you follow in my footsteps? On the contrary, what would be your reason for not doing so?

What would you prefer instead to be like a local?

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